My Crazy Family Story

Monday, 22 January 2018

You know you are a twin parent when...

One of the best feelings in the world its being and becoming a parent but when you become a parent of twins or more there are some things that only twin parents will relate to for example

You know you are a twin parent when.... people say to you having two children with a small age gap is the same as having twins and it really isn't having to babies to change, wind and feed at the same time are not the same as having two children a year apart in age gap.

text 15 things you will understand as a parent of twins picture of twins in a cot

Twin Parents should be able to relate!

  1.  You are so tired you know you have fed one twin but can't remember which one it was.
  2.  You are so tired you just lost count of how many scoops of milk you put in the bottle and have to empty it all over again.
  3. You become an expert at carrying two babies around in your arms or on your hip.
  4. You would be a millionaire if you got a pound for everytime someone told you-you had got your hands full. 
  5.  Perfect strangers think it's acceptable to ask if you have had fertility treatments.
  6. You buy a bigger car and are actually ok with it.
  7. You resign yourself to the fact you won't have a tidy house again for a very long time.
  8. When someone tells you that they know EXACTLY how you feel having twins because their kids are 18 months apart and it was just like having twins and you have to stop yourself from jumping down their throat and telling them how wrong they really are!
  9. You know what the word “singleton” means.
  10. If you have twins that are a boy and girl you are fed up with trying to explain as to why they are not identical.
  11. You know that feeling when they are both looking adorable then one of them throws up on themselves.
  12. You don't think it is acceptable to just send one card or one present between them.
  13. You have learnt how not to make eye contact with people when you go out so you don't get stopped every five seconds.
  14. You are still thinking about whether you sing happy birthday once on there birthday or once for each child.  
  15. You seem to get an instinct for wanting to buy everything in twos.
What would you add to the list because I am sure there are some things I have missed!? 

looking forward to hearing your thoughts.


Sunday, 21 January 2018

Happy New Year My Dates and Goals

So its a completely belated Happy new year from all of us it hasn't been a great start to the year for us we seem to have spent all our time at the doctor's colds followed by chest infections and stomach bugs it really has been the house of the sick I guess the more children you have the more little people there are to bring these horrible bugs back but I am hoping we are over the worst of the bugs now and we can start concentrating on having some fun!

Big events this year that I have coming up very soon!

  • January Jacks 3rd Birthday
  • February Valentines day 
  • March Mothering Sunday - Liams 8th Birthday 
  • April the Twins turn 1! 

  • May - Its Ian's sons 21st Birthday
  • July - Annual family Holiday
  • September - My Birthday and Ians 
  • October - Adams 7th Birthday 

As you can see this year's dates are a lot to be planning for as well as this year's dates I have my own goals.

  1. Save for a car. 
  2. Prepare to move house.
  3. Prepare to go back to work - although I don't think I will ever be ready for that. 
  4. Save for two birthday parties both the older ones want parties this year.
  5. I would really like to take the kids to Legoland and stay overnight this year I am going to try to make this happen!    
  6. Blog-wise I am going to try and write as much as I can about my life events - and what I learn from them 
  7. I am going to be trying to get healthy following slimming world again and trying to lose the weight I have gained since I have had the twins.
Hopefully, by the end of the year I will have a big tick list of these achievements and more hopefully you will be here to share our journey! 


Friday, 15 December 2017

Bissell Stain remover - The Twelve Stain's of Christmas

With five children to clean up after and a larger than life family, spills on the carpet are inevitable this Christmas with the kids and chocolate or my sister and her red wine it is bound to happen and I'm not looking forward to the clean up but carpet stains are going to be a thing of the past with Bissell this year with there simple yet effective cleaning solutions to get us through the twelve stains of Christmas .

The 12 stains of Christmas 

  • Chocolate
  • Glitter and Glue
  • Mulled wine
  • Gravy 
  • Dog urine 
  • Pine needles 
  • Cranberry sauce
  • Fat and grease 
  • Mud, puddles and grass stains 
  • Eggnog
  • Soot

We were challenged to put through its paces the Bissell cordless stain eraser it is lightweight easy to use and to be honest the results of the stain eraser were very very impressive.

We couldn't try out all the 12 stain's of Christmas - the stains we tested were red wine, gravy, and chocolate as these are the most likely stains in our house to occur this Christmas the kids are always dropping chocolate and I'm sure the gravy will be dripping from a plate onto the carpet - we are unfortunate in that our living room is our dining room as well so the carpet tends to get the brunt of the droppings.

We were sent a piece of carpet to try out the stains on I was actually quite glad about this as I'm a bit of a sceptic when it comes to cleaning I never believe things will actually clean as they say they should do I started off by spilling the products as if they had been dropped, I cleaned them with a damp cloth as I normally would do with spills then I set to work with the Bissell stain remover.

The Bissell Stain remover is really easy to use. before you can use it you have to charge it for at least 8 hours overnight. It comes with an easy to follow set of instructions and a trial sized spot remover and boost for those more difficult stains and odour removal the manual recommends spraying the stain first leaving for a few minutes then sucking up the stain there is also a brush on the actual machine to rub the stain remover in with.

Both the chocolate and gravy came up a treat the red wine was slightly more difficult to get up but it did remove the stain really well I have never successfully removed a red wine stain so I was very impressed that it worked even if it was a tough little stain it seemed to prove no match for the Bissell stain remover.

The Bissell stain remover is lightweight portable and easy to use the only issue I had was working the chamber where you fill it with water and spot remover once I had worked this out the rest was a doddle, I liked that whilst using the machine you could watch the water changing colour it gave me a sense of satisfaction the machine was doing its job properly.

The Bissel stain remover is definitely a must-have this Christmas and will come in handy for parties family gatherings or even if you are Christmas crafting with the kids as it removes glitter and glue it's a practical piece of equipment that will vanish all those messy spills that are very likely to happen  this Christmas and all year round. 

The BISSELL Stain Eraser is available from BISSELL Direct with a 15 and 30-minute run time and an RRP of £99.99 and £109.99, respectively.

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we were sent the amazing Bissell stain remover to test out tough hard to remove stains all opinions remain honest and my own.

Monday, 11 December 2017

Gift Guide - For Children Under One

It is difficult sometimes when you have small children to find a gift that is suitable for them or something different I have put together a gift guide for little ones to hopefully help with some ideas for gifts this Christmas.

1) Baby Blooms Bertie Bear Christmas Bathrobe set. Beautifully presented in a gift box inside you will find the gift of your choice (there is a lot to choose from on their site) encased in soft tissue paper the perfect keepsake for any child this Christmas the name of the child of whom you are gifting is perfectly embroidered onto both the dressing gown and the teddy bear you can have any name of your choice up to ten letters. Both items compliment each other and the bear is so cute it is likely to become a cuddly best friend and companion for any child.

2) Find me a gift, Bear wall night light and height chart sticker. Brighten up a baby or toddler room with this amazing Teddy Bear Wall Night Light & Height Chart Sticker set. This fun vinyl height chart decal consists of a frog holding a bunch of animal balloons, at the top of which is actually a friendly happy yellow-faced teddy night light! The LED light is battery operated, which means it can be positioned wherever in the room you like. The perfect gift for any young child this Christmas its a fun and a great way to keep a record of any child's growth.

3) blade and rose children's leggings I wrote about these on Halloween a few years ago they are cute comfortable and affordable children and babies leggins I love these they are so practical for both boys and girls alike not to mention they come in lots of stylish designs there is something to suit all tastes they have also started to make a range of funky stunning children's socks ideal as gifts and stocking fillers this Christmas.

4) Vtech pull along Dalmatian, this bright and colourful toy will have your child entertained for hours, Pull along Dalmation, includes; phrases, sounds, 3 sing-along songs and 20 melodies. Teaches; colours, numbers it also helps Develop motor skills and its Legs really move! aimed at children aged 6 months plus it would make a great and useful learning toy this year.

5) Quack Quack moo baby grows we love these practical and stylish the brand also makes vests and bibs too perfectly practical stylish designs aimed at young children another great and different gift to give this Christmas.

6) Hape classic push-along wooden first car. This chunky little car has the simple shape of a modern car it is painted in bright red, with natural wooden wheels. Three holes represent the car windows and act as a handy easy grip to help little fingers push the car along. This Wooden car Unlike many of the toy vehicles which are only suitable from age 3, this little car has been safety tested to be suitable from age 10 months upwards, and so it makes an ideal first push-along vehicle. and would make the ideal stocking filler or stand-alone gift.

7)  Nibbling Rose Dummy clip  not just your average Dummy clip beautifully crafted the dummy clips come in different colours and with different shapes this particular one has roses attached to it making them stunning to look at and can be attached anywhere from the child's car seat, sleeping bag and cot  with the peace of mind that, all beads are made of non-toxic, BPA free, soft silicone and can safely be chewed on and washed.

8) Hape Polar Animal Tactile Puzzle is a wooden puzzle with textures to explore. It’s cold in the Arctic and the animals need special coats to keep warm! Remove the pieces of this puzzle to feel the coats of the seal, penguin, polar bear, arctic hare and orca. Although this is aged at 24 months+ I think this would make a great gift for children aged one the animals can be played with separately it is aged at this limit because of the fur and material underneath the puzzle however with supervision it would be great for sensory play.

9) Find me a gift, My first money box, it's never too early to think about collecting money for your little one even if they already have there own bank account you can save money for a rainy day, a day out or even if to pop your spare change into the front is see through so you can watch the pennies stacking up this is a great gift idea for any little one and will complement any nursery perfectly.

10) Find me a gift, Guess how much I love you, babies first booties These my first booties are the cutest little things I have ever seen, they are super soft and are going to keep any little ones feet cosy this winter  the booties have floppy ears and have a cute rattle noise inside them so they are sure to keep your little one entertained they also come in an adorable keepsake gift box.

11) Baby Blooms Bertie Bear Christmas morning gift set, This would make any Christmas special for your little one again with Baby Blooms all their items come beautifully presented in a gift box the teddy bear is suitable from birth and can be personalised with any name up to ten letters long, The set comprises of a bowl, plate, mug and egg cup and is hand decorated with the Babyblooms' Christmas tree and teddy bear.


Wednesday, 29 November 2017

Stem cell storage - Cord Collection During Pregnancy

I have always had an interest in medicine and the human body right from being a teenager I was a closet geek collecting the human body magazine and reading them in bed at night time - I have never quite got rid of that feeling of wanting to learn more and there is always so much to learn about the human body which is why I trained to be an adult nurse. 

In different courses and whilst training to be a nurse I have touched upon stem cells and it is an absolutely fascinating topic - stem cells have the ability to potentially change into different cells that make up the human body which means the possibility of treating so many life-limiting and life-changing medical conditions. 

I worked in Oncology and haematology for a short time and stem cells were used to treat Leukaemia and Lymphoma which are both cancers of the blood I have also seen them being used when the bone marrow fails but Stem cells usage doesn't stop there stem cells are also being used to treat Sickle cell anaemia, spinal problems and cerebral palsy there is also ongoing research all the time to delve into other conditions that stem cells might be able to treat.

photo of DNA with writing stem cell storage cord collection during pregnancy stem cell everything you need to know

When I gave birth to each one of my children I knew there were options to have blood collected from the cord, however, nothing was specifically explained to myself at the time and it wasn't something that I really considered and it probably really should have been thinking about the research and possibilities now. 

Stem cells live in most tissues and replace themselves and other cells which are damaged and worn. We need them to maintain healthy tissues and their different functions. 

When you give birth to your child the cord and blood would usually be thrown away, really there is no harm in letting the cord blood be collected, The umbilical cord has two types of stem cells which can be collected. mesechymal stem cells which are found in the cord tissue which form bone cartilage and muscle cells and haemopoietic stem cells which go on to make up blood-related cells.

The video below gives by Smart cells gives an interesting useful and educational insight into how stem cells are collected and how amazing useful they can be for treating different conditions


If you are pregnant or planning on becoming pregnant it is something worth taking into consideration. When you have your appointment with your midwife or hospital appointment, ask the question even if your not completely sure about it, find out if blood banking is an option for yourself and your baby, it's then so easy to order a storage kit online ready for the delivery team to collect and store those all important cord cells. Which is a much easier method of collection than collecting them through bone marrows which is how they have previously been collecting them. 

It would be so great to see more women joining in with cord collection as its an amazing way of helping with research and future discoveries in medicine its well worth taking this into consideration or just asking the questions when going for your next antenatal appointment. 

Have you thought about stem cell storage or have you taken part in the collection process? I would love to hear your thoughts.

*I was provided with this video by Smart Cells and Netmums  

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